WHO REALLY IS A VIRGIN?

Please Guys and my ladies out there, help me answer this question. My room mates and I have been arguing. there are two schools of thought here, the first believe a virgin is all about someone who still has her hymen intact even though she might have done all the other do(ables) **winks** with the opposite sex.while the second school of thought where yours truly belongs believe Virginity is a thing of the mind. Cause really i know virgins who can work as sex position expert, this ladies i'm talking about didn't learn by reading o. they either see dirty movies, do the HEAD thing, receive some too, bla bla bla.The first school of thought seem to be winning the argument right now. But my point is does virginity not have to do with morals also. Abi guys would you like to get married to a so called virgin and have your friend tell you (one day) about how good a head giver she was to him in the past.Pardon me to use this example, would our Holy Mother of Christ (Virgin Mary) have been selected if she belonged to the category of virgins the first school of thought are talking about???Food for thought: Anything worth doing at all is worth doing well. Use your brain abeg.Please drop your responses. Thanks